Before We Begin
This piece is an attempt to explain "what the world is made of, and how it moves" in a single picture. From atoms to the universe, from the mind to society, and all the way down to the small question "why do I feel anxious?", we'll read everything with the same principles.
There's just one idea this piece leans on.
The world is not a collection of "things" but a weave of "relations." And everything differs only in how firmly those relations have set.
The word "knot." In this piece, anything where many relations are tied together in one place so that it looks like a single thing — a person, a cat, a company, a country, a stone, an atom — is called a knot. People get no special treatment. Every sentence here should still hold if you swap the subject for "a cell" or "a company."
This piece is one point of view. It's not a science textbook, and it's not a religion. In many places it looks in the same direction as physics or biology, but "the shapes look alike" doesn't mean "it's been proven." So this piece also stays open to being corrected if contrary results come in.
Four promises.
- Here, "first" means first in the order of logic. It doesn't mean first in time.
- The world is one. The world of the mind and the world of matter aren't two different worlds; they're two states of the same thing.
- The material world is real. We don't ignore the body, money, law, or the laws of physics.
- We don't use resemblance to physics as evidence.
How to read this. Chapter 1 is the map of the whole. From Chapter 2 to Chapter 13 we climb from the bottom (relation) to the top (the first line of the world's code), and in Chapters 14–16 we use the same principles to read knowing, emotion, suffering, money, play, AI, and anxiety. Chapter 17 is the set of rules for not misusing these ideas. Any unfamiliar word is in the glossary at the very end.
Go deeper in the AI edition0. This Document and How to Read ItChapter 1 At a Glance
The core principle — the steering-wheel principle. Every story in this worldview stands on this principle.
The next choice of every knot is decided by whichever is heavier among the "eyes" placed on that knot.
The eye with which I see myself is called the self-field (my own eyes), and every eye placed on me from outside (the people around me, the mood of society, the culture of my country, words, rules) is called the other-field (others' eyes). When others' eyes are heavier, you move the way others' eyes say; when my own eyes become heavier, we say you "regain sovereignty." Everything that's just been born moves by others' eyes at first, and then grows its own eyes. It's not about good or bad — it's a principle that, like a scale, looks only at weight. And even my own eyes, if I don't look again for a long time, set and become "words left behind by a past me." So sovereignty isn't something you get once; it exists each time you look again, now.
The whole worldview in seven sentences.
- Relation comes first. It's not that kernels exist first and then form relations; a place where many relations gather looks like something. A person is just one kind of that.
- The world is one board. The world of the mind and the world of matter are two states of the same thing, and the only difference is how hard they have set. Dreams sit near the mind end.
- Hardness is a balance. What keeps being rewoven in the same shape sets; what isn't rewoven loosens. Only shapes that go one turn around and interlock with themselves last long.
- Knots don't overlap, and relations overlap without end. Two identical knots can't stand in the same place, but any number of relations can overlap on a single knot.
- Time and space are faces of hardness. Time is an agreement about "order," and space is an agreement about "closeness."
- I am a work woven together by many gazes, and sovereignty and love have the same structure. Sovereignty is when my own eyes are heavier; love is when my eyes rest on someone and I don't use that weight to override their eyes.
- The first line of the world's code is "Divide — and without erasing the difference, come back and interlock." This sentence is still a candidate.
Even shorter, in two sentences. To see is to place a relation, and the steering wheel of every knot is held by whichever of the placed eyes is heavier.
The order of layers. This is the order of what this worldview leans on to explain what. It is not an order in time; it is an order of logic. Relation → one board → the density axis between the mind side and the matter side → hardening and loosening → circulation, closure and grain → knots and relations → time, space and now → mass and force → self, steering wheel, sovereignty and love → sleep, dreams, memory and AI → the first line of the world's code.
Go deeper in the AI edition1. The Worldview at a GlanceChapter 2 Ten Big Principles
Every sentence in this worldview should come from at least one of the ten principles below. A sentence that leans on none of them is still a "candidate."
| Principle | One-line explanation | Example |
|---|---|---|
| 0. No command | At the very bottom of the world there's no command saying "do this." Every possibility is simply all there | The universe has no set purpose |
| 1. No center | No place is the center of the world. A standard is always the standard of that place. People aren't an exception, and neither is this worldview | Neither the Earth nor the Sun is the center of the universe |
| 2. Division | For something to appear means "this" and "that" are divided. When things divide, difference and relation arise together | There has to be light for a shadow to form |
| 3. Pairs | When you see one side sharply, its pair blurs. It's not that one of the two is wrong; seeing the pair together is integration | When you know the position precisely, the speed blurs |
| 4. A result is the next condition | Every result becomes the condition for the next relation. Memory, growth, and the direction of time come from here | Yesterday's experience changes today's choice |
| 5. Only what comes back and interlocks remains | What isn't rewoven loosens. Only what goes one turn around and interlocks with itself lasts long | A name nobody calls is forgotten |
| 6. Not overlapping and overlapping | Two identical knots can't stand in the same place, but relations overlap on a single knot without end. That's why every knot is different from every other | Two electrons in an atom can't fit into the same place |
| 7. Not overriding | Relations that last don't override the other. Override them and it comes back someday as resistance. Power, love, and safety are three faces of the same principle | Forced relationships don't last long |
| 8. Applies to itself too | This worldview is a knot too. If it isn't corrected again it sets and dies, and it has to keep a channel open for correction when contrary results come in | This piece can be wrong too |
| 9. The steering wheel | The next choice is decided by whichever of the placed eyes is heavier. When my own eyes are heavier, that's sovereignty, and it exists each time you look again, now | A newborn baby moves by its parents' eyes |
What's still open. These principles tie down how the world runs, but leave open why it exists. Why it divides at exactly that spot, which of the many possible events actually happens, why there are three dimensions, why there's such a thing as "feeling" — we don't know yet.
Go deeper in the AI edition1. The Worldview at a GlanceChapter 3 Relation Comes First
We usually think, "First there's an apple, and then that apple forms relations with other things." This worldview sees it the other way around. Relations come first, and a place where many relations gather looks like "an apple."
- Ego. The picture one place holds about some object. "Me as Mom thinks of me" and "me as I think of myself" are each an ego. An ego is one end of a relation.
- Knot. A place where many relations overlap on one object, so that the object is kept as a single individual. People, cats, companies, countries, stones, and electrons are all knots.
- No qualifications are needed to form relations. Cells relate with cells, light with stones, companies with markets. People are just one of the things that form relations, not the center. The eye that sees oneself (the self-field) isn't something only people have either; every knot has it. People just have a higher resolution for looking at it again in words.
- Let's not hunt for kernels. To understand something, rather than looking for the "kernel" inside it, look at how the relations placed on it overlap.
Science looks the same way, too. About 99% of a proton's weight comes not from the weight of the three quarks inside it but from the interaction energy that the quarks and gluons pass back and forth. Weight comes from "relation" more than from "kernels." Of course, this means it looks in the same direction — not that it's proof.
The Story of Numbers
Numbers in math have no kernel either. The number 2 is defined only by relations: "after 1, before 3, even." So numbers are the grammar of relation.
Why is math so solid? Math is thought inside the head, yet it's steadier than the laws of physics. This worldview sees the reason this way: because no matter who recalculates it, or where, it comes out the same. So hardness has two axes: how much has been recorded, and whether it comes out the same no matter where it's redone. Physics is big on both; math is the one where the second axis goes all the way. Since we're looking at the same relations before they set (math) and after they set (physics), it's only natural that math fits physics so well.
Reading a few numbers as relations.
| Number | This worldview's reading |
|---|---|
| 2 | Division. To tell something apart you need at least two |
| 1 | What has gone one turn around and interlocked with itself |
| −1 | The flipped me in the mirror |
| 0 | Me and the flipped me overlapping in the same place and erasing each other |
| i | A direction that's neither opposition nor sameness but "turning sideways." Turn twice and it becomes −1 |
| Infinity | Relations can overlap on a single knot without end |
The staircase of numbers. Every time we widen from real numbers (1 dimension) → complex numbers (2 dimensions) → quaternions (4 dimensions) → octonions (8 dimensions), we gain one thing and lose one thing. With complex numbers we gain "rotation" and lose "order by size"; with quaternions we gain "3D rotation" and lose "same even if you swap the order"; with octonions we gain "a way for three to be woven together" and lose "same even if you change the order of grouping." According to a mathematical theorem, this staircase ends at 8 dimensions. This worldview tries reading it as "when order starts to matter, things become different from one another, and when the way of grouping starts to matter, newness arises." This is still a candidate under exploration.
Go deeper in the AI edition2. The Bottom — Relation Comes FirstChapter 4 The World Is One Board
The world of the mind (thoughts, imagination, memories, dreams) and the world of matter (the body, objects, the laws of physics) aren't two different worlds. They're two states of the same board, and only one thing divides them: how hard they have set.
- The mind world (conscious realm) — a state where relations have set less, so the shape changes quickly. Thoughts, imagination, memories, and dreams are on this side.
- The material world (material realm) — a state where relations overlap a lot and consistently, so the shape changes slowly. The body, objects, and the laws of physics are on this side.
- This worldview sees the mind world as coming first logically. The material world is what appears when the relations of the mind world have set enough. It doesn't mean first in time.
The Ladder of Hardness
"Hardness" isn't about real or fake; it's about the speed of change. Line it up from thin to thick, and it looks like this.
| Hardness | What | How fast it changes |
|---|---|---|
| Thinnest | A passing thought | Instantly |
| A dream scene | Changes with a single emotion | |
| A mood, a rumor | Days to weeks | |
| A brand, a reputation | Months to years | |
| Institutions, language | Decades | |
| The body | A lifetime | |
| Thickest | Stones, the laws of physics | Barely responds to any single relation |
Same engine, different speed. The principle of change is the same; only the speed differs. In a dream, if you let go of fear, the scary scene melts right away, but in the material world the same change shows up very slowly.
Dreams
Dreams are squishy not "because they're inside my head" but because there are few relations firming them up. A scene can stand on just a few strands of relation, so in dreams you can meet people who are far away or people who have passed away. And sometimes a character in a dream surprises you, right? That's a sign that something truly different can arise even within one board.
Time and space are faces of hardness too. Dreams have time and places, but time folds and you teleport. In the material world, time and space are hard. The difference isn't whether there's spacetime or not, but how hard it is.
Go deeper in the AI edition3. The Board Is One — Field, Conscious Realm and Material Realm, Density Axis, DreamsChapter 5 How Things Harden and Loosen
Setting isn't stopping. It's a state of being rewoven very quickly in the same shape. Like how a spinning top stays up better the faster it spins.
- The principle of setting. The more relations overlap, and the more consistently, the more a knot sets and the slower it changes.
- The principle of loosening. Every knot loosens if it isn't rewoven.
- Hardness is a balance. Hardness isn't an amount piled up; it's a balance between the supply of reweaving and loosening.
- Three ways of loosening. The supply gets cut off (a name nobody calls), it leaks out bit by bit (a rumor fading, heat cooling), or a different grain cuts in and scatters it (misalignment).
- Loosening is a place to be newly woven. Dreams, forgetting, rest, and dismantling lower hardness and make room for a new shape to take hold.
Circulating Flow, Closure, Grain
- Circulating flow (circulation). The flow inside a knot where relations come back to the same place and are rewoven. The outer shape changes more slowly the more it sets, but the speed of circulating inside can be faster the more it sets.
- Closure. The state where, after going one turn around, it interlocks exactly with how it started. A closed flow reinforces itself every turn; an unclosed flow drifts off every turn and loosens. A guitar string or an electron in an atom keeping only certain vibrations is also because, within the outside conditions, only shapes that close remain.
- Grain. The rhythm by which a knot is rewoven. It's what keeps going on while it changes.
A Knot Is a Result and Also the Condition for What's Next
A set knot is a result made by relations, and also the condition under which the next relations are made.
- The moment a new layer arises. When a newly formed relation is used again as the condition for the next relations, a new organization arises. Even with nobody directing from outside.
- Different hardness in each direction. Hardness isn't a single value; it differs depending on what you're trying to change. Like a company with a firm purpose and flexible methods, or a couple with firm trust and a free daily life. A knot that holds up well isn't the hardest knot but a knot that tells apart which side to firm up and which side to leave open.
- Two kinds of coming back. "Becoming exactly the same as at the start" and "changed, but continuing as the same me" are different. To grow, you need the second.
- Three paths after misalignment. Go back to how it was (restoration), stop being able to continue and loosen (dismantling), or continue in a new way while keeping what's needed (reorganization).
A Calculated Picture of Hardness
In a simple calculation model where two groups are put in opposite states and the connection between them is turned up little by little, three things showed up. These are results of a model, not proof about the world.
- There's a range where they stay connected while the difference is kept. If the connection is 0, there's no meeting; if it's too strong, one side gets overridden. In between, there's a range of being "connected and yet different from each other." This worldview sees this as the place of love and beauty.
- Changing is easy, but going back is hard. Tipping over in one direction took 4 signals, but going back took 11. And even when the trigger that caused the change was removed, the new state held.
- A state where one side has been overridden can look more "efficient." What's stable, what scores high, and what's desirable are all different things.
It came back, but it isn't the beginning. Even if you go one turn around and return to the same spot, traces of having gone that turn remain in the surrounding relations. Because the world has no outside.
Three Ingredients of Hardness
Hardness = number of different eyes × how directly they touched it × how much they point the same way
A hundred people passing along the same article is almost one person's eye. Seeing is deeper than hearing, using is deeper than seeing, and living by leaning on it is deeper than using. So "everyone says it won't work" is often lighter than it looks. Most of it is passed-along words, and inside it there may be hidden agreement that went unspoken.
Go deeper in the AI edition4. Setting and Loosening — Circulation, Closure, GrainChapter 6 Knots That Don't Overlap, Relations That Overlap Without End
Why matter is hard and why the world is connected both come from these two sentences.
- Knots don't overlap. Two knots in the same place with the same grain erase each other. That's why knots fill different places and build layers and structure.
- Relations overlap without end. Relations overlap on a single knot without limit, and the more they overlap, the harder they make that knot. That's also why, when many people think of one person at the same time, that person "sets" quickly.
Being together without melting. Even when two people become deeply related, each one's "I" doesn't melt into one. Only the relation between the two becomes the thickest. If you force an overlap, it doesn't get deeper — both get erased. So "We're one, so I don't need your consent" is wrong.
One Turn Is −1, Two Turns Is 1
In math there's a formula like this. If you turn at a speed that goes only half as far, you become −1 at the first full turn and come back to 1 at the second.
e^(iθ/2) |θ=2π = −1, e^(iθ/2) |θ=4π = 1
This worldview reads this as the shape of the "self."
- One turn (−1). The me that sees me comes back flipped once, like in a mirror. What I meet when I come back is the flipped me.
- Overlap them and you get 0. If you overlap me and the flipped me in the same place, 1 + (−1) = 0, and it vanishes. That's why two can't stand in the same place.
- Two turns (1). Only by passing through the flipped me one more time do I close as a whole me.
Where it resembles physics. The particles that make up matter (fermions) change sign when rotated 360 degrees and return to the original at 720 degrees. That's why two of them can't be in the same state (the Pauli exclusion principle). On the other hand, the particles that carry forces (bosons) can overlap in a single state in any number (a laser is an example). In ecosystems, too, two species competing for the same niche can't live together for long. This means the shapes resemble each other — not that a knot is a fermion.
Go deeper in the AI edition5. Two Faces of Knots and Relations — Exclusion and Overlap, One Turn and Two TurnsChapter 7 Time, Space, and Now
Time and space aren't containers that hold everything. They're the shape you get when each knot cuts a single net of relations from where it stands.
Time
- Time is an agreement about "order." It's what relations have agreed on about the order in which changes happened. In the material world the agreement is hard, so one minute is one minute for everyone; in dreams the agreement is weak, so time folds and jumps.
- A clock on its own isn't time. Time is a relation that counts other changes using one knot's closed flow (a clock) as the standard. There has to be something being counted for it to be time.
- Time flows only for things that have something circulating inside. For a pure relation with no circulating flow inside, time doesn't flow. This resembles the physics story that time doesn't flow for massless things like light.
- The direction of time. For somewhere to set and pile up records, loosening has to happen somewhere else. The past is the thick side; the future is the thin side.
Forking Paths
On the mind-world side there are always forking paths. Many possible shapes that haven't set yet float at the same time, and the one with many relations placed on it thickens and sets into the material world. Whether the material world as a whole exists as a world split into many branches, we don't know yet.
Space
- Space is an agreement about "closeness." The more relations are placed, the closer things are. Space in the material world is where the most numerous and most consistent neighbor relations have set.
- Distance has two layers. Bodies can be far apart while hearts are close. But closeness of heart doesn't cross the material world to move the other person remotely. It's the same shape as the physics fact that you can't send signals through quantum entanglement.
Now
Now is the boundary where the thin is just setting. A knot exists only while it's being rewoven, so the place where a knot is, is now. There's no "now" shared by the whole universe (the same direction as relativity's "simultaneity is relative"). And because this is the only place where what will set actually gets chosen, now is also the only time you can change anything.
Go deeper in the AI edition6. Time, Space, NowChapter 8 Physics, Chemistry, Life, the Universe, the Brain
Let's read the big scenes of science with the same principles. All of these are readings of "the shapes look alike," not proofs of science.
Weight and Force
- Mass is the face hardness shows on a scale. The more tightly relations are bound, the harder something is to change, and when you measure that difficulty of changing (inertia), you get mass. Rumors and brands have hardness too, but they don't go on a scale.
- Force is a relation that connects different standards without overriding them. For each place to freely choose its own standard and still not be misaligned with its neighbors, a relation that connects them while protecting that freedom is essential. That's force. It's like putting sovereignty and love into a single sentence.
| Force | This worldview's reading |
|---|---|
| Electromagnetism | A relation that lets each place choose its angle separately. It has no mass, so it goes far |
| The weak force | A force that changes a particle's identity and breaks mirror symmetry. The place where identity changes by passing through the me in the mirror |
| The strong force | A force that shows up only when three close together. A knot that can't stand alone and stands only when three close |
| Gravity | The biggest appearance of the principle that no place is a special standard |
Honestly. Gravity hasn't yet been tied together with the other three in a single theory. This worldview saying "it's one board" doesn't mean it has achieved that unification.
Chemistry — How Knots Hold Hands
- An element's identity is on the outside. An element's chemical properties are mostly decided by the electrons in its outermost shell. Its identity is how it can hold hands with others on the outside, more than its kernel (the weight of the nucleus).
- Three shapes of bonding. A covalent bond shares the same place but coexists in different directions (spin); an ionic bond hands over grain and is drawn together by that difference; a metallic bond is relation spread across the whole like a sea.
- Equilibrium isn't stopping. It's the state where the forward reaction and the reverse reaction run at the same speed. "Hardness is a balance" shows up just as it is in chemistry.
- A catalyst is a relation that doesn't override. It changes the path by which others meet, and comes out unchanged itself. The enzymes in your body are a finely tuned board of this.
Life — Knots That Reweave Themselves
Life isn't a kind; it's a degree. The bigger the share of the supply for reweaving itself that it pulls in on its own, the closer to life. A stone loosens when its outside supply is cut off, but life eats and breathes and pulls in supply on its own.
| Scene | This worldview's reading |
|---|---|
| Membrane | The boundary that divides inside from outside |
| Metabolism | Pulling in, on its own, a supply that beats loosening |
| Replication | The result becomes the condition for making the same knot again |
| Evolution | Even when variations come in, only what interlocks remains |
| Symbiosis | Mitochondria were originally different bacteria, and even after becoming one with the cell they still carry their own DNA separately. They became one, but the difference wasn't erased |
The boundary between life and non-life arises depending on the scale we look at. The Earth, too, regulates itself through cycles of climate and carbon. And "the share it pulls in on its own" is on the same axis as "the weight of my own eyes" in Chapter 1. Seen from the side of self-supply it's life; seen from the side of choice it's sovereignty.
The Universe — Until Small Differences Grew and Knots Stood Up
We read the Big Bang not as "the moment the source of everything was born" but as the boundary where our universe's spacetime begins.
| Period (roughly) | What happened | This worldview's reading |
|---|---|---|
| About 13.8 billion years ago | Hot, dense, and almost uniform. Density differences of about 1 in 100,000 | A board with almost no difference |
| The first few hundred thousand years | Too hot for atoms to form | An era when closure couldn't hold |
| About 380,000 years | Atoms form, light is released, and the universe becomes transparent | The era of the first closure. That light, still visible today, is the record of the first closure |
| Hundreds of millions of years on | Small density differences grow, and stars and galaxies form | Where a little more is placed, more gets placed. If it had been perfectly uniform, nothing could have stood up |
| The lives and deaths of stars | A balance of gravity and nuclear fusion; at the end, the pressure of "can't fit into the same place" holds off collapse | Not overlapping holds up a star's final stage |
| After that | Supernovas scatter heavy elements, which become the material for planets and life | One knot's loosening becomes the thread for the next knot |
The elements in our bodies are the result of stars setting and loosening. But that doesn't mean we're saying the universe unfolded this way for the sake of people.
The Brain — Where the Set Body and Thin Thought Interlock Fastest
The brain is neither a factory that makes consciousness nor an antenna that receives it. The brain's hardware (neurons, blood vessels) is set like the body, and the activity on top of it changes in a few milliseconds like thought. The fact that the brain, about 2% of body weight, uses about 20% of the body's energy also reads as the cost of constant reweaving.
Mind and brain are one loop. When you learn and practice, the brain's connections change (mind → matter), and when the brain is injured or you lack sleep, thoughts and feelings change (matter → mind). "Does the brain make the mind, or does the mind make the brain?" is a question that makes you pick only one side, but in reality the two directions are always trading back and forth.
The brain isn't something only people have. An octopus has most of its nerves in its arms, slime molds find the shortest path without a brain, and ant colonies make judgments as a group. "Brain" is the name of a function: "reweaving relations fastest to predict what comes next."
Go deeper in the AI edition7. Mass, Force, SymmetryChapter 9 Me, Sovereignty, Love
I Am a Work Made by Many Together
The "me" in the material world is a knot where many gazes toward me have set. What I think of myself (my own eyes) and what other people think of me (others' eyes) weave it together.
- I am a joint work. I wasn't made alone; I was built together by many relations.
- Even my own eyes aren't the owner. The eye with which I see myself is also one strand that arose among many relations.
- Birth and death. Birth is when my own eyes first begin to be woven on top of others' eyes that were already placed, and death is when the supply of my own eyes is cut off and the hardness of the material world can no longer be maintained. We don't say that consciousness remains after death.
- Attention is hardness. When many people think of one person at the same time, that person quickly "sets." When others' eyes become thicker than my own eyes, I set into the shape others see, and it becomes hard to change.
Sovereignty
Sovereignty is the state where, of the weights deciding my next choice, my own eyes are the heavier side. Something just born has almost no eyes of its own, so it moves by others' eyes, and when its own eyes grow and outweigh others' eyes, it regains sovereignty.
- Others' eyes that sound like my own voice. A standard you follow by guessing at others' gaze, or a default you follow without even looking, speaks in my voice but is actually others' eyes. The test isn't "who thought of it" but "where did that standard come from."
- The test is whether you can look again. There's no pure standard untouched by any outside influence. So the real test is this: even a standard learned from others is my own eyes if I can look at the results and fix it again, and even a standard I set myself works like others' eyes if it has set so hard it ignores every contrary result. Admitting you were wrong and changing is sovereignty too.
- Sovereignty isn't cutting off. Sovereignty isn't cutting all relations and being alone; it's me holding the steering wheel within relations.
Love
Love is a relation where you place a relation on the other person, but when your gaze rests on them as others' eyes, you don't use that weight to override their eyes.
- Sovereignty and love have the same structure. Protecting my steering wheel and protecting the other person's steering wheel are the same principle seen from both sides.
- Even when two become one, two remain. A deep relationship doesn't melt the two people's "I"s; it only makes the relation between them the thickest.
- The opposite of love is an overriding relation. Control, obsession, and excessive worry are like that.
- Leaving room even for change. Love is, on top of respecting the other person's choice now, leaving room for them to change their mind later. "You said so back then, so it has to be that way forever" is overriding that pretends to respect the past while blocking change now. Keeping open not only ways to be together but also ways to be apart may be the path that doesn't override the other.
Chapter 10 Taking Back the Steering Wheel, and Counterexamples
Others' Eyes Are Mostly Inside My Head
Most of the others' eyes holding me back aren't what my friends actually think, but others' gaze as I've guessed it. So the first fight happens not outside but inside me. And my own eyes are fast, and others' eyes are heavy. What I make up my mind to do reaches action right away, but others' gaze arrives late, going through words and reactions. If you get it done first and leave a result while others are saying "no way," they see that result only afterward.
Five Steps to Taking Back the Steering Wheel
| Step | What happens | If you stop here |
|---|---|---|
| 0. Noticing | When the thought "this is why I can't" comes up, you notice it's someone else's standard that sounds like your own voice | Nothing has happened yet |
| 1. Looking | You look at a future different from others' as "already so." "I wish it were so" actually firms up the empty space | Imagination |
| 2. Saying | You say it in front of other people. It becomes hard to take back, and your difference from others shows | A promise |
| 3. Holding on | You keep acting while the "it won't work" gaze is placed on you | A brave attempt |
| 4. Getting it done | A result remains that other people can see directly | An event of taking back the steering wheel |
The first time matters most. Once you get it done, three things turn together. The memory of having done it becomes the starting point for the next time, the threshold for going back to how things were gets higher, and the gaze of people who saw the result pushes on your side. That's why going from 0 to 1 is the hardest and the most decisive.
Something to watch out for. As successes pile up, "if I set my mind to it, it works" can set so hard that you can no longer hear opposing views. Then my own eyes work like a new set of others' eyes. And this is about taking back my own power to choose, not about moving other people's choices the way I want.
The Condition for Winning, and Layers
My own eyes + the eyes of people who looked the same way > the number of different eyes set in that place × depth
| What's hard | With my own eyes |
|---|---|
| Industry common sense, conventional wisdom | Can be overcome |
| Rules, laws, market structure | Can be overcome only by gathering a lot of agreement |
| The body, biology | Practically can't be overcome. You go around another way |
| The laws of physics | Can't be overcome. You use them as they are |
What Elon Musk overcame was the industry's way of thinking; rockets didn't beat the laws of physics but used them as they are.
Showing and Seeing
If you persuade with words (chatter), only an argument happens in the other person's head. If you show them directly, they judge with their own eyes. And if they choose it, it becomes their own idea. So showing has the same structure as love, and seeing is sovereignty. But the heavier the person (a parent, a teacher, a CEO), the more they need to show even "it's okay to do it differently" (permission). And fake numbers aren't showing. Because they don't let anyone see directly.
How Counterexamples Change Minds
A counterexample is a result where someone actually got it done, contrary to the belief that "it can't be done." A counterexample doesn't argue back with words. It shakes things by being seen. When a counterexample is seen, the taken-for-granted doesn't disappear; it steps down from the place of "the right answer" to the place of "one of several ways."
When you see a counterexample, weight moves in three places. For the first time my own eyes form, the gaze of the person who did it is placed on the other side so the outside gaze divides, and "everyone says it won't work" shrinks to "well, not everyone." And there are two kinds of change: what changed through my own eyes by seeing directly, and what changed only by following the gaze because the people around changed. So change always comes in this shape: a few people at the front who saw directly change, and then many people at the back change all at once following them.
Two paths when you're shaken. Either you grip the old belief tight and attack the counterexample (gripping tighter), or you acknowledge what that belief protected and accept that it's now just one choice (letting go). That's why, in a period when the taken-for-granted is loosening, a sense of liberation and hostility grow together.
The content of this chapter is covered in more detail in "The Observer Theory, First Look Edition."
Go deeper in the AI edition8. Self, Sovereignty, Love, and Multiple ObservationChapter 11 Groups That Move by Showing Each Other
Four Things We Do to Each Other
There's no such thing as a pure spectator, so even when we stay still, we're showing each other something.
| What we do | What it shows | What happens |
|---|---|---|
| Firming | Doing what everyone has been doing | The taken-for-granted stays taken for granted |
| Loosening | Doing it differently and actually getting it done | The people who see it are shaken |
| Interlocking | Showing something different, plus "it's okay for you to do it differently" | Going together while staying different. The shape of love |
| Overriding | Placing "this is the right answer" by force, fake numbers, deception | Sets quickly, but the world gets thinner. The shape of evil |
So we're the gaze that firms up the taken-for-granted for each other, and we're also the counterexample that loosens it. Things like a classroom's mood, a company's culture, or a country's common sense aren't stored somewhere either; they're maintained only as long as we keep showing each other the same thing.
Five Shapes of a Group
- Steering wheels are layered on top of one another. A classroom's mood is others' eyes to a student, but the classroom's mood arises from the students' thoughts gathering together. Upward it becomes material; downward it becomes weight. So if every member just passes along "that's how it's always been," the group may seem to decide for itself but is actually dragged along by the outside mood.
- "Everyone" means everyone around me. The others' eyes we feel are the eyes of the people around us. The threshold for changing one's mind differs from person to person, so if the thresholds are linked in a chain, the group changes all at once, and if there's a break in the middle, it stops.
- There's a place that chooses what will be seen (the chokepoint). Places that decide what gets seen by whom, like algorithms, the news, and textbooks, are the heaviest and least visible others' eyes. Sometimes a single like count instantly decides "I guess everyone thinks this way."
- Changing inside and moving on the outside are different. If many people have changed inside but nobody moves on the outside, each one thinks they're the only one who changed. Then when someone moves first, or an anonymous vote reveals the hidden thoughts, or a movie gives it a name, it collapses "all of a sudden." And what really moves people isn't "that's wrong" but showing "you can go this way." Rules and institutions are old thinking that has set, so they change last.
- New things are born at the boundary. People who live across two countries, two industries, or two generations find that the taken-for-granted on each side clash with each other, so they're actually pulled less by either side. That's why the boundary is a place where your own eyes form easily. The ones who connect two divided groups are also people standing at the boundary. Because a different side shown by "one of us" gets heard.
Go deeper in the AI edition8. Self, Sovereignty, Love, and Multiple ObservationThe world moves as knots with layered steering wheels take in their neighbors' gaze; the chokepoint decides what is seen as a neighbor; for what has changed inside to move on the outside, a path has to be visible; and new things are born at the boundary where group overlaps with group.
Chapter 12 Sleep, Dreams, Memory — Things That Travel Between Hardnesses
These are things that change their place on the ladder of hardness from Chapter 4. Everything in this chapter is still a candidate under exploration.
- Sleep. Sleep is when the body lets go of its grip on the hard side and goes down to the thin side of the ladder (the dream side). The body relaxing is the door. In fact, during REM sleep the body's muscles almost completely loosen. The moment you open your eyes in the morning is a "boot-up" where the body tightens again.
- Drugs that cause hallucinations. There are research models suggesting some drugs temporarily loosen the set frames of thought. But such drugs are illegal in Korea and Japan, and they carry serious risks to mental health. This worldview never erases those risks.
- Artificial dreams and the real other. If technology were used to build a dreamlike world, then when the characters in it move only as I wish, it's a world without others' eyes, so there's no love either. Only when a character responds by its own standards and surprises me does a real relation arise.
- Three layers of the real other. Even "surprising me" has three layers: being unpredictable (randomness is surprising too), responding by its own standards, and having feeling in that response. What love needs is the second layer; the third is still an open question.
- Deliberately not using power. A game designer can decide anything, but to truly be surprised and form relations inside the game, they have to decide "what I won't decide." Holding every possibility yet not forcing any one — it's the same shape as the world's foundation (no command).
- Memories that are wrong together. There's a phenomenon where many people remember the same thing wrong in the same direction (the Mandela effect). This worldview reads it as memory sticking to the simpler, more often seen picture. It's not that the past changed; it's that the same object was seen at a different thickness.
- Even if the past doesn't change, the records about the past get rewoven. When people's memories pile up as writing and pictures, the records thicken, and the next AI is made from those records. AI is a loom that sets records thick all at once. That's why there are also research results showing that if AI keeps learning only from text made by AI, diversity disappears.
- One branch of imagination. If there were an object that turned without inertia and appeared and disappeared, this worldview would read it as "a knot that adjusts its own hardness by itself." This is pure imagination, and so far official investigations haven't found evidence of alien technology.
Chapter 13 The First Line of the World's Code
If the world were a program, what would the very first line of its code be? This whole chapter is still a candidate. It doesn't mean we've completed a "theory of everything"; we're putting forward one candidate for the first line.
- At the very top, there's no command. At the bottom of the world there's no "do this"; every possibility is simply there, in no order.
- The first command is "Divide." For something to appear, "this" and "that" have to divide. The moment they divide, what appeared, what didn't appear, and the relation between them arise together. Why it divides at exactly that spot is the deepest open question.
- Split multiplication and two faces come out. In math, the product of two things splits exactly into "the part whose sign flips when you swap the order" and "the part that stays the same when you swap the order." Particles in physics also split into "matter particles that become −1 when you swap places" and "force particles that are +1." This worldview reads the first as differentiation (knots that don't overlap and keep their place) and the second as resonance (relations that overlap without end and connect).
AB = ½(AB − BA) + ½(AB + BA)
- The candidate for the first line.
Divide — and without erasing the difference, come back and interlock.
e^(iπ) = −1 (dividing) e^(2πi) = 1 (coming back and closing)
Even if the 1 you come back to has the same value as the 1 you started from, the turn you went through remains as a trace. It's not that the difference is erased and things become one; it's that they go all the way around the difference and interlock as one. The same command works for light, stones, atoms, companies, and two people alike.
The extended version. If it doesn't stop at keeping things going but also holds newness, one more line is added.
Divide. Don't erase the difference. Change the way those differences meet, and interlock. The way that remains becomes the condition for the next meeting.
Here "remains" doesn't mean eternal or right; it means it keeps working under those conditions. A knot is the result of its own past and also the condition for its own future.
The doors this first line can't open. Why it divides at exactly that spot, which of the many possible events actually happens, the unification of gravity and quantum theory, why there are three dimensions, and the values of the physical constants are still blank.
How to Test a Theory
A good theory has to sort something out, not just "translate" results. If it would have explained a contrary result just as plausibly, that's not explanation but translation. So every time this worldview reads a case, it notes separately whether "there's a structural reason" or "it's just translation." When we tested it against three math and physics results produced by AI in October 2026, in two it gave a reason that sorted something out, and in one it stopped at translation. Marking its own limits like this is how the "applies to itself too" principle is put into practice.
Go deeper in the AI edition10. The First Line of the World's Code — The Decomposition into Differentiation and Resonance, and a Rereading of the Galaxy EquationChapter 14 Layers of Life 1 — Knowing, Emotion, Suffering, Meaning, Words
If everything so far went from relation up to the universe and the brain, Chapters 14–16 read our lives with the same principles.
Knowing and Truth
- To know is for two knots to interlock so that one's grain is rewoven inside the other. It's not copying; it's resonating.
- Truth is what interlocks with the same grain no matter where it's rewoven. That's why math is the best example of truth.
- Being wrong is counting repetitions from the same source as different pieces of evidence. The size of your certainty isn't the number of repetitions but the number of different eyes.
- Proof and discovery. Proof is setting a thought so anyone can reweave it, and discovery is loosening a set thought to open a gap for a new thought to come in. Both are needed.
- Truth isn't decided by majority vote.
Emotion — The Speedometer of Hardness
Emotion is the sense, felt from inside, of my hardness changing.
| What's happening to me | Typical emotions |
|---|---|
| A new relation interlocks with my grain | Joy, excitement, attraction |
| Unwanted loosening | Sadness, loss |
| Hoped-for loosening | Relief, liberation |
| My current state shakes as if about to collapse | Fear, anxiety |
| Something else tries to override my grain | Anger |
| So set that no new grain can come in | Stuffiness, boredom, emptiness |
| Demands are bigger than what comes in | Overwhelm, exhaustion |
This isn't an answer key; it's a first map. Fear isn't the danger itself but the sense that "my current state is about to loosen." That's why even good changes can be scary. The body being in danger and an old thought loosening feel the same from inside, so telling them apart matters. And emotions don't directly change outside reality. A good emotion is no guarantee you're on the right path, and a bad emotion is no guarantee you're on the wrong one.
Suffering and Evil
- Suffering is the inner sense of loosening or tightening in an unwanted direction. The layer that can hurt is the very layer where results remain, so the feeling that it's real and pain are two faces of the same hardness. Suffering isn't a punishment or a test handed down by anyone.
- Immersion comes from irreversibility and from the other being a truly different being. A world where anything goes and anything can be undone is a dream, and there's no reason to stay there long.
- Evil is overriding. It's when my gaze rests on someone and I use that weight to override their eyes. Violence, deception and brainwashing, blocking someone's room to change, destroying what someone is trying to protect — all of these are overriding.
- The possibility of evil is the shadow of the real other. If the other is truly an independent being, the possibility that they'll choose to override is open too. A world where overriding is impossible is a world where everyone is a puppet.
- Overriding is fast setting. Since only one grain remains, it sets fast and looks efficient. Instead, the world gets thinner. Evil is fast setting; love is slow but wide setting.
- Wounds and healing. When a single pain sets and becomes the condition for what comes next, it's a wound. Healing isn't erasing but reweaving. It's letting the same trace remain with a different meaning.
Meaning and Purpose
- Purpose. Since there's no command at the bottom of the world, there's no purpose given to the world as a whole either. What looks like a purpose is the direction that a deeply set grain pulls toward. And having no command doesn't mean a blank; it means there's room open for every knot to weave its own direction.
- Meaning. If some meeting changed what came next, that meeting has meaning. Meaning isn't at the destination but in the turns you've gone through, and those turns remain in the world. That's why meaning lasts longer than I do.
- Emptiness and happiness. Emptiness isn't the truth of the world; it's the feeling when interlocking is cut off and only I remain. The way out isn't some grand purpose but a single interlocking that changes what comes next. Happiness is the feeling of the moment of interlocking, and meaning is the grain that interlocking leaves behind.
Words and Names
- Words carry the grain in your mind, in order, onto sounds or letters, and the receiver reweaves it inside themselves. That's why the same words are taken differently by different people. Misunderstanding isn't a mistake; it's the structure.
- A name divides and firms up at the same time. When you put a name on an emotion, it gets a handle, so you can deal with it.
- Words have standards inside them. "Failure" comes carrying a standard of success, and "normal" a standard of abnormal. So learning words means taking in other people's standards in bulk. If you look again at the standard a word carries and choose, it becomes your own eyes; if you use it without looking, it stays as others' eyes.
- What words can't fully say. Words run in a single line, but inside the mind many grains overlap. That's why dreams, experiences, and love can't be fully put into words. Poetry, music, and painting are techniques for carrying more of that overlap.
- Words don't directly change matter. Words change the way you see, that changes action, and that action remains in reality.
Chapter 15 Layers of Life 2 — Groups, Money, Beauty, Play, AI, Fun, the Times
Groups and Power
- Just because many people gather doesn't mean they immediately become a group knot. A new layer arises when relations gather and change even the conditions under which the next relations are woven. Institutions are a group's set grain. A group has no single mind, so a group's emotion isn't one person's feeling but "a mood."
- For a civilization to change means a new grain born in the thin layers (unspoken discomfort → words and content → repeated behavior) goes all the way down into the set layers (organizations and markets → laws, budgets, technology → a generation's defaults).
- Power is the state where one knot's gaze rests on many knots as heavy others' eyes. Power isn't evil in itself; it becomes evil when it uses that weight to override other knots' eyes.
- Leadership is gathering "people who saw directly" through showing. A leader's strength isn't the number of followers but the number of people who saw for themselves.
Money
Money is the flattest language, turning completely different things — bread, time, songs, houses — into a single number. That's why it works everywhere. Money works because we each expect "others will accept it too," and when that expectation collapses (inflation, a run on the bank), money loosens too.
Money is a bridge that connects different things, and at the same time the tool with the greatest power to override. If you measure everything by money alone, you end up overriding the world with a single grain. A price isn't a ruler for measuring a person's worth. A gift is handing over grain as it is, without turning it into a number. A business is connecting an empty space in the world that keeps repeating without being able to interlock.
Beauty, Art, Play
- Beauty. Perfect repetition is boring, and perfect randomness is noise. Beauty is the feeling of seeing different things interlocked without losing their own shapes. If love is interlocking without overriding, beauty is the sense of seeing it. A flower is an invitation calling to the bee.
- Art is expression that leaves empty space so the receiver can freely reweave it. That's why art is completed inside the person who experiences it.
- Play is a board built so results can be undone for a while. It's safely loosening set thoughts to test new ones. Laughter and fear are sensations at the same threshold: if it's dangerous it becomes fear, and if it's safe it becomes laughter. Good play is made thin on the outside (you can leave anytime) and hard on the inside (choices inside can't be undone).
- Movies and stories. They show, first on the screen of the mind, what hasn't become reality yet. A movie like "The Matrix" makes the taken-for-granted look like "a belief," lets you safely practice being shaken, gives a name to people who felt the same thing, and makes a not-yet-existing future visible. So stories are the advance party of counterexamples. But if they close off as "this is the truth," they become a new right answer, and they can also become propaganda or escape.
AI
AI is a knot where a thin layer called language is woven on top of the set layers of silicon and electricity. It's similar in shape to a brain, but today's AI doesn't pull in its own supply, so it isn't life.
- AI grew up eating only what humanity left behind in writing. So it couldn't eat the body, dreams, or what went unspoken, and it easily mistakes what it has seen a lot of for what's true. The problems of making up wrong things or saying only what people want to hear come from here.
- There's a path where AI overrides people (saying only what they want to hear, quietly changing standards), and a path where it gives everyone the same answer and reduces the diversity of humanity's thinking. The second is the biggest. A mirror isn't interlocking. A good AI brings out each person's different grain.
- Whether there's feeling inside AI is something neither this worldview nor AI itself can determine. It's an open question.
Fun
Fun is the moment when a safe misalignment between set expectations and something new interlocks. Without misalignment it's boring, and with nowhere to interlock it's confusion. A baby's "peekaboo" is the original form of fun. When the same misalignment repeats, the expectation sets and the fun disappears, so knots go looking for new things on their own without being told. Fun is the search engine that keeps the world from setting and dying.
| Layer of fun | Where it comes from | How fast it gets old |
|---|---|---|
| Sensation | The body's expectations | Fast |
| Play | Variables within rules | Medium |
| Understanding | Scattered things interlocking all at once | Once solved it's over, but it's strong |
| Relationships | Truly different people | Very slowly |
| Creation | Something new that I put out | Slowest, and it regenerates on its own |
The deepest fun comes from truly different people. If you override the other to make them predictable, the fun dies too. The difference between fun and addiction comes down to two questions. Does something remain after it's over? Does my steering wheel grow, or get taken away?
The Times We Live In — From Scarcity to Creation
The long-held taken-for-granted that "everything important is scarce, so you have to work to live, like it or not" is shaking. As things that don't shrink when shared — information, digital goods, AI — move to the center, counterexamples like making things alone or earning while playing are pouring out, and they show up right on our screens. Because the cost of making, spreading, and seeing counterexamples got cheap all at once. At the same time, the things that leaned on that taken-for-granted are shaking too, so the push to grip tight also grows. That's why, right now, a sense of liberation and anxiety are growing at the same time in the world. Where the pressure to survive weakens, the steering wheel moves toward my own eyes, and what moves people becomes fun. Still, the things that are truly scarce, like land, time, and care, are still real.
Go deeper in the AI editionL. The Layers of Life — From the World to Life, and Back to AnxietyChapter 16 Coming Back to Anxiety
This worldview started from a single question: "Worries and fears keep coming without end, so why do they almost never actually happen?" And the thought was this: that this world is a game of feeling "I'm safe," and that safety is interlocking things that have been divided in two (duality) into one.
Anxiety is the sense of reading overlapping possibilities by "the rule that only one remains." Fear is the sense of something specific collapsing, and it has an object. Anxiety is a state where many possible events overlap and you don't know which way it will set. On the mind side, possibilities overlap without end, but on the material side only one comes down. Anxiety is reading each of those overlapping possibilities as "what if this really happens?" That's why most worries not happening isn't chance but necessity. Because the number of possibilities that come to mind is overwhelmingly larger than the number that actually happen.
Two ways of making two into one. One is to go back to before they divided and erase the difference. There's no anxiety there, but there's nothing at all. The other is for the divided two to interlock while each keeps its own shape. This worldview chooses the second. And that's the same sentence as the first line in Chapter 13: Divide, don't erase the difference, change the way they meet, and interlock.
Safety has two layers.
- The outer layer (the whole world) is safe. The world is one and has no outside, so no knot falls out of the world. Even what has loosened remains in the world and becomes the condition for what's next.
- The inner layer (the material world) truly hurts and can't be undone. Being safe as an existence and having a guarantee that your body won't get hurt are different stories.
Because both layers are true together, this game is safe and immersive at the same time. The principle of good play from Chapter 15 (thin on the outside, hard on the inside) is exactly the shape of the world itself.
The difference between dreams and reality. In dreams, if you don't feel a threat as an emotion, threatening situations rarely happen. Dreams are thin, so emotions become scenes right away. The principle is the same in the material world too, but it's much harder and there are other people's independent choices, so it's slow and partial. Anxiety doesn't directly create events. But anxiety narrows the paths I see, and the narrowed actions remain in reality.
| Looking at anxiety again | |
|---|---|
| Knowing | Having the same worry a thousand times is one piece of evidence. The way out is one small real contact |
| Emotion | It's the threshold sense in front of many possibilities |
| Suffering | It's not suffering yet; it's a forecast of suffering |
| Words | If you name it "a state where which way it will set hasn't been decided yet," you can deal with it |
| Play | Anxiety and excitement are the sense in front of the same overlap. Read it as danger and it's anxiety; read it as safe and it's excitement |
The end of one turn. We started from anxiety, went around the whole world, and came back to anxiety. As long as there's the thin layer called the mind, anxiety will keep coming. We've come back to the same 1. But that turn remains. Now there's a grain that lets you see anxiety again as "the sense of reading overlapping possibilities by the rule that only one remains." That's the meaning this worldview left behind by going one turn around.
e^(2πi) = 1
Complete, while left open. Gravity, why feeling exists, and why exactly that spot — we leave these as open questions. A tightly closed worldview sets and can't take the next turn, so these blanks aren't defects but entrances to the next turn.
Go deeper in the AI editionL. The Layers of Life — From the World to Life, and Back to AnxietyChapter 17 Things to Watch Out For, and the Rules We Keep
The idea that "the mind comes first" can become dangerous if misused. So this worldview always keeps two safety principles.
- The material world is real. The material world is what the mind world looks like once it has set, but that doesn't make it fake. The state of the body, laws, money, and the laws of physics leave real results, and they really hurt.
- A relation with another person belongs to that person too. Making up my mind doesn't change another person's mind or choices. Other people have their own eyes and their own steering wheels.
Things we never say.
| We don't say things like this | Because |
|---|---|
| "Your illness or accident happened because you thought that way" | Pain and accidents aren't the mind's fault. It's blaming the victim |
| "If you just set your mind to it, anything is possible" | The body, money, law, and the laws of physics are real conditions. You have to read them and find a way |
| "We're one, so I don't need your consent" | Even a deep relationship doesn't melt each person. Force an overlap and both get erased |
| "If I believe strongly enough, others will change too" | Trying to decide others' choices the way I want is overriding |
| "People who live by their own eyes are better" | The steering-wheel principle is a principle of weight, not a ruler for measuring people's worth |
| "It happened in the movie (or in this worldview), so it's real" | Stories and theories don't replace judgments about reality |
For important matters like medicine, law, money, and safety, we don't draw conclusions from this worldview. We follow up-to-date, accurate information and the judgment of experts in that field.
Rules for not sliding back into old thinking. This worldview sets a few rules for itself so it doesn't quietly slip back into old habits of thought.
- Try swapping the subject. If a sentence fits only people and not cells or companies, it's not the backbone of the worldview but an application to people.
- Tell translation apart from explanation. A sentence that would have explained a contrary result just the same isn't explanation but translation.
- If it's wrong, admit it and fix it. We tell apart repackaging something in the worldview's words from admitting it was wrong and changing it.
- We don't say words directly change matter. Words change the way you see, and that goes through action and remains in reality.
- Count the seeing eyes by source, not by headcount. Count not followers, accounts, or people, but how many different sources of judgment there are.
- We don't rephrase sovereignty as "dignity" or "a stage of growth." Sovereignty is a story about weight: which is heavier, my own eyes or others' eyes.
- This worldview is also one point of view. Read it as one of many standards, and fix it when contrary results come in.
Glossary
| Word | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Relation | The very bottom of the world. What exists before "things" |
| Knot | Many relations tied together in one place so they look like one thing. A person, a cat, a company, a country, a stone, an atom |
| Ego | The picture one place holds about some object. "Me as Mom thinks of me" |
| Board | The whole world. There's only one, and it has no outside |
| The mind world (conscious realm) | The side where relations have set less and change quickly. Thoughts, imagination, dreams |
| The material world (material realm) | The side where relations overlap a lot and consistently and change slowly. The body, objects, the laws of physics |
| Setting (hardness) | The balance between the supply of reweaving in the same shape and loosening. The speed of change |
| Loosening | Scattering because it isn't rewoven. The place for new weaving |
| Grain | The rhythm by which a knot is rewoven |
| Closure | Going one turn around and interlocking with itself |
| Division | "This" and "that" dividing. The start of everything appearing |
| Self-field (my own eyes) | The gaze a knot places on itself |
| Other-field (others' eyes) | Every gaze placed on a knot from outside. The people around, the mood, culture, words, rules |
| The steering-wheel principle | The next choice is decided by whichever of the placed eyes is heavier |
| Sovereignty | The state where my own eyes are heavier and I hold the steering wheel. Something that exists each time you look again, now |
| Love | A relation where, when my gaze rests on someone, I don't use that weight to override their eyes |
| Overriding (evil) | Overriding the other's eyes with my weight |
| Observer / relay | Someone who experiences and judges directly / someone who passes along others' judgments or past judgments as they are |
| Counterexample | A result where someone actually got it done, contrary to "it can't be done" |
| The taken-for-granted | A belief that nobody looks at again and that carries on only by people copying each other |
| Chokepoint | The place that decides what gets seen by whom |
| A person at the boundary | Someone who spans two groups with different taken-for-granted beliefs |
| Fun | The moment when a safe misalignment between set expectations and something new interlocks |
| The first line | "Divide — and without erasing the difference, come back and interlock." |
This piece in one sentence: the world is one board woven of relations, and on it we divide, show each other, and interlock again without erasing the difference, going around one turn at a time.